And We Went the Other Way |
I wondered and wondered how Tatum would handle these situations. Then finally, (sometimes I’m slow), a few weeks ago, it occurred to me!. He wouldn’t sit around focusing on what was denied, he’d work towards an alternative solution. Relentlessly. And so, my mantra, every time I started to complain became, “Yes, but what’s the solution, how can what’s missing be replaced?”
The writing group we were missing out on because “adults need a safe space to write,” transformed into a freestyle writing hangout. Sure, we couldn’t schedule library study rooms as we had in the past, but we could hangout in the library lounge, because well, everyone is free to hang out in the lounge. We can take turns free-writing,reading, and commenting, to build our writing skills, and you know what? We know so many patrons at the library! We’ll have another writing group built in not time, and this one without rules. Write what you please!
The museum class that no longer exists for toddlers? Simplicity itself. As it turns out, our museum membership allows for up to three more adults per visit, and an unlimited number of kids. If we chip in to hire one of the docents we loved in the class that no longer exists, we’ll be off and running!
And as for the bar stools? Well, it’s always a bummer when a place doesn’t turn out to be your favorite new hangout. Good thing we have a number of existing hangouts where we’re treated like one of the family, I think we’ll focus on the sheer delight of hanging out at those places!
What are your favorite homeschooling workarounds to “No”?
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