I got a reminder from Debra Eckerling via twitter about how much fun it is to correspond via mail and what a valuable way it is to network:
Here’s your #Networking #GoaloftheDay#Write a #letter. On paper. With pen. And mail it!#goalchat @MangoPublishing pic.twitter.com/2GV2CTn0Ga
— Debra Eckerling ⭐ Event Outcome Optimization (@TheDEBMethod) June 10, 2022
Think back to the last time you checked your mail. There were probably a few fliers from a chain grocery store, an inocuous white evenelope labeled 'Important!' offering you a new car warranty, and maybe a bill from the place you forgot to switch over to e-billing. Right? If you're like me, that's what your mail has been like for the last 30 days or so in a row.
Now, imagine you look at your stack of mail, and your handwritten name pops out at you from the front of an envelope. You check the postmark, (more on that below), and it's from a place you've never been, or maybe it's from in town, both equally mysterious in today's age of correspondence. You open up the envelope to find a few sentences dashed off by one of your acquaintances. Maybe they're telling you about where they traveled this week, maybe they're letting you know about some small victory in their life that you're peripherally attached to. Maybe they just mention they were thinking of you.
Now, imagine how that might make you feel. Take your time. Do you feel suprised? Maybe a little bit important? Happy? Interested in the person that dashed off the missive?
And finally, imagine if you could do something as small as writing a letter that could inspire those kinds of feelings in your buddies.
Writing someone is a simple thing to do, and thanks to email and social media, it's an increasingly unique and impactful experience for the recipient of the letter, and that's pretty cool, I think. To get started, just pick up a few supplies. Keep an eye out for postcards in your local shops. For that matter, watch for fliers being handed out on the sidewalk that you could dash a note on the back of. Walk to your local post office to pick up some stamps, (can you tell I live in a city with post offices everywhere?) Or, have supplies delivered to your house by the post office using http://usps.com They even have prestamped envelopes and postcards in case you're looking to make things really easy.
In my experience, I do better if I don't picture myself sitting down to catch up with a friend. Sometimes that's fun, but do I really have the time? Not usually. Instead, picture yourself like Oscar Wilde who madly dashed off two sentence missives, shoved them into tiny envelopes, affixed a stamp, and then threw them out his upstairs window onto the sidewalk below, confident that someone would find the letter and drop it into the nearest postbox. (OK, unless you live on a busy street don't throw your letters out the window, and if the envelope's too small, you'll need a butterfly stamp (see the picture) for nonmachinable surcharge mail.) The big idea here though, is just dash off a few thoughts to your buddy! It won't take you long, and it'll be a pretty cool thing for them.
In addition to your traditional friends and acquaintances, think about writing to people at local buisinesses you frequent. I do this when the gang are out and about traveling and haven't been around to visit our favorite places, like our pizza hangout over on Hyde St. It's a lot of fun getting to reconnect over our letter when we get back.
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