A bit of a conflagration took place in the unschooling portion of twitter this week. The discussion revolved around whether or not children have power and whether or not we as parents ‘have to’ coerce them. As an unschooling dad, I like to believe kids do have power. I like to back off as much as I can, and I’ve discovered the more I back off, the better things go. And, therein lies the rub, I think. Yes, I do have power, both based on my size, my ‘status’ in society, and money. Choosing not to use that power however is what improves my life and the kids’. As an unschooling parent, I think the kids should be learning what they want to learn when they want to learn it. I also think that the thought that I could coerce the kids into learning things by applying my power is wrong-headed. Let’s take, for example six year-old No. Two’s efforts to read, or perhaps I’d be more accurate in phrasing it as his lack of effort to read. For those that think parents can exercise powe